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Guides for families with children

Live-In vs Live-Out Nannies — What Works Best for Your Household?

A practical guide to the key differences between live-in and live-out arrangements, the questions to ask yourself, and how each model affects daily family life.

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Telling Your Children About a New Nanny

An important conversation handled with care. This guide covers how to prepare your child, manage the transition, and ensure the relationship gets off to the right start.

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Our Nanny Vetting & Selection Process — What Families Need to Know

Every nanny on our register is personally interviewed, DBS checked and fully referenced. Here we explain each stage of our vetting process and why it matters.

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Housekeeping

Hiring guides, role types, salary ranges, live-in arrangements and what to look for in a great housekeeper.

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Nannies & childcare

Vetting, PAYE, live-in vs live-out, helping children adjust, and what sole charge really means.

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Employment & payroll

PAYE, employer NI, contracts, right-to-work checks, DBS, maternity rights and everything the Employment Rights Act 2025 changed.

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Bespoke & luxury living

Household DNA, staff training, lifestyle management, discretion, and the standards of a truly well-run private home.

Guides for household employers

Employment law

Discretion & Trust in Private Household Staffing

What discretion genuinely means in a private household, how professional staffing agencies protect your privacy, and why NDA arrangements are increasingly common for UHNW clients.

School preparation

How to Prepare Your Child for Their First Day of School

A parent's guide to the emotional and practical preparation that helps children start school with confidence — and how a well-matched nanny can be the most stabilising presence during the transition.

Salary guide

What Should I Pay a Housekeeper in Surrey in 2026?

Current market rates for full-time, part-time, live-in and live-out housekeepers across Surrey and Sussex — with guidance on how to structure a fair and competitive offer.

Hiring guide

How to Write a Household Staff Brief That Gets the Right Candidates

A well-written brief produces a better match. This guide explains what to include, what to leave out, and how to communicate your household's character — not just its requirements.

Employing a Nanny — Your PAYE and Tax Obligations Explained

Most families are surprised to learn that nannies are employees in law, not self-employed. This guide explains what that means, what it costs, and how to get it right.

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The Difference Between a Housekeeper and a Cleaner — and Why It Matters

Two very different roles, often confused. This guide explains the distinction, when each is appropriate, and what to look for when deciding which one your household genuinely needs.

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The Employment Rights Act 2025 — What Household Employers Need to Know

Day one unfair dismissal rights, zero-hours contract reform, SSP from Day 1 — the 2025 Act changed the rules significantly. Here is what it means if you employ household staff.

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Our full Employer's Guide is available to download

18 sections covering everything a household employer needs to know — contracts, PAYE, DBS, right-to-work, maternity rights, the Employment Rights Act 2025 and salary thresholds for 2025/26. Written for families across Surrey, Sussex and Kent.